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Original Post: May 28, 2008 12:55PM EDT
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How do i get someone to come back to me when I know they left for the wrong reasons he is with the mother of his child so that he can see his kid everyday she treats him like crap i have always treated him good he even his friends came running to me when he broke up with me they were the ones to take me out and make sure i was okay they werent concerned with him they were worried about me she live a hundred miles away and supposedly left her boyfriend to get back with him I know she hasnt but i dont want to look like the bad person or have confrontation with the ex. She sent me a message today asking me to never speak to him again , I have never loved someone the way i love him.
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 AB
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May 28, 2008 02:03PM EDT



so tell him.......or move on. that's it.
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May 31, 2008 10:08PM EDT



one word : punctuation.
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Black Rose, TX
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June 17, 2008 05:49PM EDT




this is a little confusing
i'll explain it as best as can. recently this girl that i don't like got in touch with me. I only responded out of curiosity (she goes from hating me to trying to be friends) and boredom. she told not only has she been staying with a friend who lives in my building (!!! I don't want her to come over, and i have since been ignoring her) and tells me she's getting a divorce. I'm not sure how old she is, but i know she's not 18. The guy she is divorcing is my age. I'm friends with her (ex)brother in law and his girlfriend and called them after i heard from her. I only did because she ruined her husbands dream, he was a member of a band that was on the verge of being signed and gave it up for her. Plus, she was telling me a bunch of things that didn't make a whole lot of sense and i wanted them to know what was being said. I wasn't doing it to be catty, I just thought they had a right to know.
anyways, now my friends have got this thing in their heads that me and this guy would be great together. They don't really want to set us up, and he has no idea that they thought that. I wasn't supposed to know, but my best friend told me. They want to introduce us and let us be friends and see if something develops. Besides, he needs time to heal. I don't know this guy, I've never met him and I don't know how i feel about this. I'm not saying it won't work, it might, my friends know both of us pretty well, but even after he is over her, what's going to happen if were to get together and she would see us here? And even though I'm older than she is, she is certifiably insane...and i'm a little nervous about what she's going to do. She is sadistic and weird and unpredictable. Even if we were friends, she would go into this huge fit of rage and I don't know what would happen. I honestly don't know how to feel about any of this.
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Glendale, AZ
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June 20, 2008 12:14PM EDT



I would sit him down and simply throw the cards on the table. Show him the little she offers him, and show him how much better the things you have to offer him are. Tell him how you feel and be straight forward. Don't hide around the bush.
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Black Rose, TX
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June 21, 2008 01:59AM EDT



When you gonna see that love is dumb as well as blind
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July 05, 2008 05:58PM EDT




everything works out the way it is suppose to.
Just give it time to sort itself out.
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Black Rose, TX
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July 06, 2008 04:49AM EDT



I will send someone up there now to check it out.
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July 06, 2008 05:46PM EDT



Well... it seems like your chasing someone who is running away... Although your feelings for him are very sincere.... He is a grown man and made his decision to be back with his ex because of the baby... You cant blame him for that... Sometimes the best thing to do is move on with your life... Everything happens for a reason... Only time will tell just be patient... And Im sure you already know the saying, "You never know what you had until its gone". As for his current girlfriend's text, just respect that because more than likely if you were in her shoes you would not want them talking either to avoid conflict. Give them space and be strong! I hope this helps you out! Good luck*
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Black Rose, TX
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July 07, 2008 12:17AM EDT



The immediate roots are in the Middle English words "ferten", "feortan" or "farten";
 
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